HI ! I’ve failed my challenge. My plan was doing this challenge while counting down on my wedding, but after several cheats, I still couldn’t do it properly, but I wouldn’t make this challenge 100% as a failure.
First I want to tell my activity
during the little hiatus. On 9th October I did my seserahan,
siraman, and midodareni. 10th October was my wedding and after it we
couldn’t do what so called honeymoon because we had to go to our families to
ask their blessings. It was sooo tiring, yet delightful. As if i –personally-
didn’t have other mind burden. Luckily my score was qualified for the civil
servant test, but everything could possibly since the final announcement hasn’t
come out yet.
Today’s 19th October, I
am sitting on the sofa in our new temporary apartment and writing my delayed
challenge.
The theme is write a lesson
you’ve learned.
As a new marriage couple, we have
many advices from the older. One advice embedded in my head is marriage is a
teamwork. And yea, IT IS. Hahaha.. i remembered when we did the housekeeping, I
did the laundry, he cooked for our lunch. That’s one both simplest and fastest thing
I’ve experienced on my one week marriage life. I mean the fastest because it happened as soon
as we’ve married, even before marriage, teamwork was applicated as well. Because
of that, it’s crucial to find a person who we can and we want to have a teamwork
with. It’s not easy because first we have to appreciate what the spouse have
and tolerate to the weakness. I couldn’t image if he couldn’t do the
housekeeping then I have to do all things >.< and neither did him tho. Hahaha..
Besides teamwork, some of the
advices I remembered and we hope we can apply to the marriage life :
1. Involve God to our live
Since the priest was the one who
said this, I think there’s no question. LOL. But to be honest, we’ve tried to
involve Him, we make a new daily routine; pray together in the morning. Not as
simple as it seen, we’re still sleepy and got to sleep, then others have to pat
to wake up.
2. Love
It’s clear. I do believe that
there’s no other perfect foundation than love. It’s my belief, others may have
other perspective. But living with my husband, I couldn’t imagine if I didn’t
have love for him. How could he’s the first thing you see before and after
waking up ? and for the rest of the life ~
3. Forgive
This advice came from my uncle. He
said that if the spouse do wrong, forgive. It’s not easy because imagine if you’re
still angry but you have you see them every day, you have to do teamwork with
them.. it’s hard, but with love MAYBE it will easier ? because love contains
forgive each other, no ?
Okay, I think that’s for my
writing today. I am excited because I write this next to my husband, in our
room.. he works from home so he doesn’t have to go to office already. I hope God
will stay in our little family and our love grows, and so for everyone who read
this writing.. God bless you and love you <3
greetings from us
a photo with my late father, bringing and introducing my husband
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