The theme is : write about loving someone.
I have had written about love at
my previous writing (but I forget which one ;p) and my sight about it still
same. Love is a process. Love is something we do yet improve for the rest of
our life. Love isn’t always be indicated by ‘butterfly on the stomach’,
sometimes we don’t feel anything but we do know that we love it.
Yesterday night I had a
discussion with my husband about our future. It went intense, some of his words
were hurt and I believed so were mine to him. I wasn’t talk to him for few
minutes and I decided to talk again after I cooled down myself. Next morning,
we communicate as usual; as if nothing happened. It’s a little spice of the
marriage, and that’s how marriage works, in my opinion. Discuss, maybe there’s
a time we had a different ideas and it triggers us to upset, but the
willingness to come back to apologize if needed, to open up both heart and
mind, then accept the whole discussion comprehensively (accepting the ideas
doesn’t same thing with agree, but at least we try to realize and understand
that there are other idea, other option that could be different or against
ours), are things will happen all the time for the marriage lyfe. If there’s no
love, how could we do it ? rather than determine ‘butterfly on the stomach’ as
a love, I prefer discussion-apologizing-accepting; including marriage is a
teamwork.
How to show the love is
important. How do the others know we love them, if they couldn’t feel it ? love
can disguise as a many things; it can be actions, words, or something in
between; you named it. The preferences of love sign itself can be different one
to another.
Note : I’ve done this writing since 16 days after my marriage but I post it now
PS (again) : I've wrote this on my blog BUT again, I didn't click publish yet ~
